Tuesday, 17 June 2014

Good Vs. Bad – What Kind of Guys do Girls Like?

To understand what kind of a guy girls like, you need to understand the system and how attraction works. And then, it’s just a snap of the fingers! 

If you want to impress a girl or get her attention, you don’t need to be mean or rude *typical assumed bad boy behavior*. You don’t need to allow her to walk all over you *typical assumed good guy behavior*. You just need to learn to display your manliness better than every other guy around you!
The truth is, women always fall for the dominant male, and there’s nothing anyone can do to change that because evolution has forged that idea deep inside a girl’s genes.

Ovulation, her age and a woman’s interest in a man
So how can you be the guy who attracts any girl he wants? Well, you need to understand the system before you try beating the system. If you’re relying on half-truths and confusions, you’ll always find yourself on the unfair and cheated side.
Women, unknown to themselves, like different kinds of men at different times of their menstrual cycle. During ovulation, when they are most fertile, they prefer men who are more brawny, confident and display more stereotypical traits of manly behavior. So if you’re a less manly guy, chances are, your wife or girlfriend would be lusting for manlier men at certain times of the month. But at other times, they may not really care about the difference at all.
What you need to understand from this is that women, whether they choose to or not, subconsciously find themselves getting more attracted to manly men when they are most fertile and ready to produce an offspring!

Evolution and why nice guys suck!
Women want a boyfriend or a husband who would stick around and provide emotional support, but evolution has tricked them into falling for the kind of person who’s adventurous, risk taking, dominating and socially powerful. And that’s because evolution believes that the stronger male genes can be found only in males who display a manlier and dominating behavior.
From the perspective of evolution, women want manly men with superior genes. And just like in the wild, where female animals choose a mate who’s alpha or superior, among humans too, women prefer a man who dominates other men.

Simply put, girls want a guy who looks masculine *which means a good dose of testosterone* and dominates other guys, in some way or the other.
Now it’s easy to see why every girl has a crush on the most popular boy in school and college, doesn’t it?
Whether you like it or not, a guy who sits alone in the corner just doesn’t seem like the perfect manly guy a girl wants, because evolution has brainwashed every girl in the world into believing that a guy who isn’t dominant and masculine just doesn’t have good genes, which means he isn’t worth going out with, and finally, having sex with.

Nice guys vs. bad boys
The good old question that bugs and annoys nice guys for as long as time can remember – Why do girls choose bad boys over nice guys, get used by them, and finally when they emotionally mature, come back crying into the arms of a typical nice guy who’s devoted and supportive?
This should help you understand the cycle better.
The younger the woman, the more she wants a male displaying manly characteristics because her hormones want a man who’s surging with testosterone. She isn’t attracted to a kind and soft-spoken man. She wants a wild stallion!

Are you the wild stallion?
Yeah or neigh?! Well, a man who’s got good genes grows up stronger. He has a strong immune system, and since he’s healthier than most others in his species, his body has the capacity to use more resources and produce more of the hormone, testosterone.
And testosterone is directly linked to manly traits like a strong masculine jawline, deeper voice, dominant behavior, risk taking ability, bigger and well defined muscles, etc. But at the same time, the higher the testosterone in a man, the harder it would be for him to stick around with just one woman. But that’s an entirely different story anyway.
So if you have these features and these abilities, you’re probably one of those lucky men who have better genes than the rest of the mere mortals around you. And by the odds of evolution, you have an upper hand when it comes to the game of sex and procreation.

But even if you don’t have these traits, fret not. You can fake it till you make it, and still be all stallion in no time, because there’s a little secret not many people know.
You can always increase the level of testosterone in your body just by using a few tips, without ever relying on any supplements.

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