12 Prince Charming Traits that Make Girls Swoon

Who is Prince Charming and what makes him such a desirable catch? Use these Prince Charming traits to woo your own lady and make her swoon over you!

Prince Charming is every girl’s fantasy.
He’s the knight in shining armor and the guy who makes fairy tales happen. All the time!
He’s the one who makes every woman believe in fairytale romances.
And he’s the chivalrous man who puts all other gentlemen to shame.
Have you ever wondered what it takes it woo a girl or make her fall for you?
All you need to do is follow the path of Prince Charming.
After all, if he can convince girls to believe in fairytale endings and happy romance, following his path can surely help you do the same.

The 12 traits of Prince Charming that can make girls swoon

Most guys assume that you just have to be yourself to get the girl you want. But then again, many of these guys who convince themselves to be themselves usually end up going to bed alone every night. Ever wondered why?
People believe that we don’t need to change, and we’re perfect just the way we are. But in reality, all of us change just a little bit all the time. We learn from others, our parents, our friends and characters from movies, to become better individuals over time.
As long as you alter your personality in a positive direction and pick up traits that make you a better guy, you’d start to see the difference very soon.
But if you’re lost, lonely and convinced you don’t stand a chance in the game of love, here are 12 traits of Prince Charming that can help you change your life for the better, and impress almost all girls you meet, all the time!

#1 Be the savior. Prince Charming is the dependable guy, the guy who always comes to a beautiful damsel’s rescue just when she needs help or a bit of rescuing from a tough spot. Be that guy. Be eager to offer a helping hand to girls, especially if it’s the girl you like or one of her friends.

#2 Be a chivalrous guy. Chivalry is an innate quality of the good guy. Learn to make way for a girl while stepping into an elevator, or stop to help a girl pick up something she dropped. It’ll make you look good, and give you the opportunity to strike a conversation with her. If you want to impress women around you, be it on the street or even at work, learn the art of modern chivalry.

#3 Fight for her. Let her see that you’re willing to make the effort to win her over, be it from dragons or other men who are trying to get her attention. Don’t behave like a spoilt brat who sulks in the corner when he doesn’t get what he wants. Instead, go out there and win her attention, even if she’s surrounded by other suitors.

#4 Pursue her. A great girl will always play hard to get, and that’s never a bad thing. The phase of pursuing and chasing a girl does two things, helps you realize if she’s worth the trouble, and secondly, it helps her see that you’re willing to make the effort to woo her.
So go on out there with a bunch of hand tied flowers and woo her, even if she laughs and turns into a shade of awkward pink. Remember, there’s something really sexy and cute about a guy who doesn’t mind embarrassing himself just to win a girl’s heart.

#5 Be a man of principles. Prince Charming is a man of principles. He keeps his word and never backtracks on it. If you make a promise to the girl you like, make sure you keep it *unless you really have no choice but to break the promise*. A man of principles applies the same rules to himself and to others around him, be it about compliments or accusations.

#6 Be the leader. A great guy is almost always the guy who stands out in a group. He’s charismatic and everyone around him respect him and listen to his views. You don’t need to be an alpha male to be a leader, you just need to be respected and taken seriously.

#7 Don’t be a coward. Prince Charming is brave and never tucks his tail. When you’re dating a girl, she expects you to be her protector. If you seem weak willed or cowardly, especially in your own daily life, be it work or family, she’ll never be able to look up at you as someone she can rely on in times of need.

#8 Look like a dashing hero. Price Charming always looks good. If you think you’re not the most handsome guy in the room, worry not. Charm and charisma has less to do with natural beauty and more to do with how you present yourself. Be fit, look clean and dress well, and let the women in your life see you for the gentleman that you are.

#9 Be a confident smooth talker. Confident talkers are always the most interesting people, and they most definitely know how to impress women, make them smile and have a great time. Don’t be a nervous wreck that can’t make a move on a girl. Learn to effortlessly strike a conversation with the girl you like and always find ways to create happy conversations.

#10 Motivation and determination. A true knight in shining armor is focused in his professional and personal life. Don’t be the vagabond who has no clear directions in life. If you want to impress a girl, let her see that you have your own goals in life and are working hard to achieve your dreams. After all, girls are always drawn to be big dreamers.

#11 The graceful you. One of the biggest traits of the typical Prince Charming is his grace and composure. Be aware of your body and learn to carry it well. Work on your posture and stand tall, it always makes you appear more confident and makes you better looking than the others who walk with a slouched gait.

#12 Be intelligent. A charming guy is a smooth talkers and wonderful conversationalist, but he’s also very aware of the world around him.  If you want to be the man of a special girl’s dreams, have intelligent conversations with her so she can see you for the intellectual that you are. Corny one liners and jokes are great ice breakers, but you need to be a man of substance to woo her and show her that you’re truly Prince Charming material!

50 Cute and Sexy Things Guys Do That Girls Love!

Ever wondered what girls find attractive about the things you do? Read this list of 50 cute and sexy things guys do that girls love, and you’ll know!

There are many things a guy can do to woo a girl, but there are many other things that a girl could love about a guy even when he’s just being himself. Sometimes, it’s the little things like remembering to take home dinner for her when he’s eating out with his own friends. And at other times, it’s coaxing her instead of arguing with her or walking away when she says “I’m fine” and clearly, she’s not. Check out these 50 things guys do that girls just find irresistible!

#1 He’s protective of his girl and makes her feel safe around him.
#2 He compliments her randomly, even when she isn’t expecting a compliment.
#3 It’s very cute when he strokes her hair or runs his hand against her arms lovingly while sitting next to each other.
#4 He says sweet things like “I want to have kids that look just like you!”
#5 When a girl watches her man talking to his guy friends, and he behaves and gesticulates crudely like a teenage boy.
#6 He lifts really heavy things. *furniture too!*
#7 Lip syncing a song *if he brays like a donkey* or actually singing a song to his girlfriend.
#8 He sends good morning and good night texts to his girlfriend.

#9 He works with power tools, and he looks so sexy doing it!
#10 A girl finds a guy irresistible when he smells great.
#11 It’s really sweet when a guy makes his girl’s priority his own and helps her.
#12 He behaves like a clown or makes funny facial expressions and impersonations.
#13 He loves a challenge and tries to finish something for her even though he’s bad at it or hates doing it.
#14 He sweeps her off her feet, carries her to the bed and tosses her gently onto the bed!
#15 When he knows she’s *monster-ating*, he avoids getting in his girl’s way and treats her nicely.
#16 He says ‘I love you’ every day, and he means it!
#17 He cuddles up with his girlfriend and talks to her when she’s in his arms.
#18 Girls love how dirty their guy’s mind gets in private.
#19 He shows up out of the blue just to surprise her.
#20 He remembers all the little things about the relationship, like anniversaries, what both of you did on the first date, and other small details she assumes he’s forgotten.
#21 He hugs her from behind, and whispers sweet nothings in her ears.
#22 A great guy never misses any opportunity to show his girl just how much he cares about her.
#23 He indulges in romantic gestures all the time.
#24 He tries to tell a white lie to her and gets caught. It’s cute how a guy in love can’t even lie to his girlfriend convincingly.
#25 He reveals his sensitive side to her, which is so unlike him.
#26 He falls asleep on her lap or on her chest.
#27 It’s very sweet when a guy plays with his girl’s fingers while holding it.
#28 He kisses his girl on her forehead to show his affection.
#29 It’s sexy when a guy displays confidence or even overconfidence about something.
#30 He does something thoughtful, even though it’s understated like keeping something in place, or laying her clothes out while she’s taking a shower.
#31 A guy looks really sexy when he shows his authority and stay in control when he’s speaking to someone on the street or at work.
#32 It’s sweet when a boyfriend tries to cooks for his girlfriend, especially when he doesn’t know how to cook.
#33 He plays with animals and likes them.
#34 He’s calm and composed even in the most stressful of situations.
#35 Sometimes he tries to show her off as a trophy wife because he’s so proud of her.
#36 He makes his girl feel loved and attractive all the time.
#37 It’s cute when the guy smooth talks or even flirts and gets things done his way.
#38 He’s an occasional rule breaker *not with the law!*. It’s particularly sweet when he breaks a rule just for his girl!
#39 He drives his car really fast now and then. It’s such a scary and exciting rush for the girl!
#40 A guy’s fresh post-workout sweat is really sexy and arousing!
#41 It’s cute when he asks his girl to play rough or participate in guy activities because he wants to bond with her and he thinks she’ll have a nice time.
#42 A guy who gets along with kids and can communicate with them is so sweet!
#43 He behaves like a child when he’s playing with his guy toys.
#44 He defends his girlfriend in an argument with someone else even when she’s in the wrong.
#45 A guy looks sexy when he runs like an athlete. *even on the treadmill*
#46 It’s very sweet when the guy sheepishly tries to make up after a fight.
#47 He dances stupidly like there’s no tomorrow and like no one’s watching him. He especially does this when he’s at home with his girl and is trying to impress her!
#48 He involuntarily catches his girl’s hand while crossing the street.
#49 It’s very cute when a manly looking guy gets excited about something and can’t hold his excitement back.
#50 He brings surprise gifts all the time. It could be a box of chocolates, tickets to a movie, flowers, even a very small nothing that’s from the heart.

Good Vs. Bad – What Kind of Guys do Girls Like?

To understand what kind of a guy girls like, you need to understand the system and how attraction works. And then, it’s just a snap of the fingers! 

If you want to impress a girl or get her attention, you don’t need to be mean or rude *typical assumed bad boy behavior*. You don’t need to allow her to walk all over you *typical assumed good guy behavior*. You just need to learn to display your manliness better than every other guy around you!
The truth is, women always fall for the dominant male, and there’s nothing anyone can do to change that because evolution has forged that idea deep inside a girl’s genes.

Ovulation, her age and a woman’s interest in a man
So how can you be the guy who attracts any girl he wants? Well, you need to understand the system before you try beating the system. If you’re relying on half-truths and confusions, you’ll always find yourself on the unfair and cheated side.
Women, unknown to themselves, like different kinds of men at different times of their menstrual cycle. During ovulation, when they are most fertile, they prefer men who are more brawny, confident and display more stereotypical traits of manly behavior. So if you’re a less manly guy, chances are, your wife or girlfriend would be lusting for manlier men at certain times of the month. But at other times, they may not really care about the difference at all.
What you need to understand from this is that women, whether they choose to or not, subconsciously find themselves getting more attracted to manly men when they are most fertile and ready to produce an offspring!

Evolution and why nice guys suck!
Women want a boyfriend or a husband who would stick around and provide emotional support, but evolution has tricked them into falling for the kind of person who’s adventurous, risk taking, dominating and socially powerful. And that’s because evolution believes that the stronger male genes can be found only in males who display a manlier and dominating behavior.
From the perspective of evolution, women want manly men with superior genes. And just like in the wild, where female animals choose a mate who’s alpha or superior, among humans too, women prefer a man who dominates other men.

Simply put, girls want a guy who looks masculine *which means a good dose of testosterone* and dominates other guys, in some way or the other.
Now it’s easy to see why every girl has a crush on the most popular boy in school and college, doesn’t it?
Whether you like it or not, a guy who sits alone in the corner just doesn’t seem like the perfect manly guy a girl wants, because evolution has brainwashed every girl in the world into believing that a guy who isn’t dominant and masculine just doesn’t have good genes, which means he isn’t worth going out with, and finally, having sex with.

Nice guys vs. bad boys
The good old question that bugs and annoys nice guys for as long as time can remember – Why do girls choose bad boys over nice guys, get used by them, and finally when they emotionally mature, come back crying into the arms of a typical nice guy who’s devoted and supportive?
This should help you understand the cycle better.
The younger the woman, the more she wants a male displaying manly characteristics because her hormones want a man who’s surging with testosterone. She isn’t attracted to a kind and soft-spoken man. She wants a wild stallion!

Are you the wild stallion?
Yeah or neigh?! Well, a man who’s got good genes grows up stronger. He has a strong immune system, and since he’s healthier than most others in his species, his body has the capacity to use more resources and produce more of the hormone, testosterone.
And testosterone is directly linked to manly traits like a strong masculine jawline, deeper voice, dominant behavior, risk taking ability, bigger and well defined muscles, etc. But at the same time, the higher the testosterone in a man, the harder it would be for him to stick around with just one woman. But that’s an entirely different story anyway.
So if you have these features and these abilities, you’re probably one of those lucky men who have better genes than the rest of the mere mortals around you. And by the odds of evolution, you have an upper hand when it comes to the game of sex and procreation.

But even if you don’t have these traits, fret not. You can fake it till you make it, and still be all stallion in no time, because there’s a little secret not many people know.
You can always increase the level of testosterone in your body just by using a few tips, without ever relying on any supplements.

How to Date a Girl by Making Her Laugh

Like a girl who’s all that and more? Find out how to date a girl by making her laugh. It’s easy when you can be a funny and charming guy all at once.

There are so many ways to date a girl.
You can be the tough guy, the brat boy, or you can be the friend.
But there’s also another great way to win a girl over, and that’s by learning to make a girl laugh.
Tickling a girl’s funny bone is the easiest way to make a girl fall in love with you.
But it’s also riddled with dangers that are not easy to see.
For starters, if you’re not a funny guy and you try to date a girl by making her laugh, you’re probably going to end up making yourself look like an annoying prick.
Another grave danger is the treacherous friend zone. If you’re not too careful with your friendly approach to date a girl, you may end up becoming her I-wish-you-were-gay best friend.
Use these steps on how to date a girl by being a funny guy, and you’ll be able to get the girl to fall in love with you and have a great time being with you, all at once.

How to date a girl using humor
Now before you ever try to date a girl using humor, you need to know how to make a girl laugh and have a great time when she’s around you.
Now humor and wit is not something that can be developed overnight. It takes a lot of time. In fact, it’s harder to learn to be funny than every other trick in the book to impress women. But at the same time, humor and wit is something that can make you popular and loved by everyone, not just the woman you’re trying to attract.

To be the popular guy and get any girl you want by making her laugh, you need to be witty and charming all at once. Think Russell Brand, Adam Sandler and Hugh Grant. They’re all exceptionally talented funny men with their own styles of humor. And the best part, no matter what kind of humor you pick, you can always end up with the girl.

How to make a girl laugh
To be a funny guy, always look at the bright side of everything and try to find a funny side to everything that happens around you. Being funny isn’t just about what you say, it’s also how you behave when you say something. While it’s never easy to preach about humor, for starters, watch a few standup comedians in their finest hour. You’ll be able to pick up a few beginners tips in no time.

Why does making a girl laugh work so well?
Humor is a great ice breaker, no matter where you are. It works at a party, in the office and with women too. When a guy approaches a girl, the tension starts to build almost instantly at the introduction. The girl’s on her guarded best, assuming you may be a cocky wannabe who’s going to try and pick her up.
But instead of trying to show her that you’re a wise guy, if you reveal your funny side almost immediately, you’d be able to ease the tension and any girl you talk to will warm up and lose her inhibitions in no time.

The best kind of humor to woo a girl
As soon as you’re introduced to the girl you like, be warm and friendly. You don’t need to turn on your bad boy charm here. You’re trying to play the nice guy.
For starters, talk about the place, or about the friend who just introduced you. Speak about anything that you believe will create more interesting conversations, as long as both of you are aware of it and keen on talking about it. That’s why speaking about the place or a friend or even a game is a great way to keep the conversation going. A minute into the conversation, talk about a funny incident that happened to you around the same time you met her.
If there’s one thing that can make a girl burst into peals of laughter and like you almost instantly, it’s the kind of humor where you ridicule yourself for doing something stupid or pretend like you lack in something when you really don’t.
Girls always assume a guy would try to dominate a girl as soon as they interact with each other. But when you ridicule yourself with humor, it makes a girl feel like the dominant and powerful person in the conversation. And when she feels like she’s the one in control of the situation, she’d open up to you and even carry the conversation forward with ease. It may make you look weaker at first, but a few clever lines and wit can bring you back into her dating book in no time.
Ridiculing yourself by using a few self deprecating jokes is always a great hit with the ladies. Here’s a great one for a first conversation.
“You know I never really know what to talk to a girl as soon as I’m introduced to one. Almost always I end up sounding like an idiot. Wait a minute… damn, I sound like an idiot right now, don’t I?”

Never overdo self deprecating humor
While using self deprecating humor may be a great way to open a conversation, don’t completely rely on it to woo a girl. If you want to date a girl, you need to use humor to make her feel comfortable, not to give her a chance to walk all over you.
If you’re a really funny and charming guy and tell a girl that you think you’re boring her, she’ll obviously laugh and deny it. But if you’re a boring guy and you use the same line, you’d end up ruining the conversation right away.
Make fun of your good side, and never your bad side, if you want to impress a girl. When you reveal something that’s truly lacking, it’ll make it look like you have no ego and self respect. A guy who cares about himself doesn’t constantly ridicule himself.

7 Ways to Get Her to Like You

You met an amazing girl. She’s hot, hilarious, and chill. Obviously you want to peak her interest and get her thinking about you as soon as possible—but how? We reached out to the dating experts to figure out what works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to catching her attention. Here are seven surefire ways to nudge things along to a second date.

1. Dial down your walking speed. As you walk up to her (or with her), slow down your pace and slightly exaggerate your shoulder movements. It will make you look relaxed and in control. “She will read ‘confidence’ and confidence is always attractive,” says NYC-based body language expert Tonya Reiman, author of The Power of Body Language: How to Succeed in Every Business and Social Encounter. “Do this while holding eye contact and smiling and you will easily catch her attention.” Just make sure you stand tall and keep the shoulder action subtle. If you saunter too much she’ll either think you’re injured or some creeper approaching in slow-mo.

2. Talk yourself up (tactfully). If you speak a foreign language, surf, or play guitar, you definitely want to let her know. “Skills or talents are super sexy and highlighting them makes you appear more dynamic to her,” says San Diego-based dating and relationship coach DeAnna Lorraine. The trick is sliding them into conversation naturally, so you don’t come off as awkward—or like you’re bragging. Wait for the right opening, and slip it in nonchalantly. She will notice.

3. Speak with a strong, sure voice. To be clear, we’re not telling you to yell at her. But you want to convey outgoing confidence, which won’t happen if you talk in a soft, muffled way. To make sure your voice carries, practice talking twice as loud as you think you want to be when you’re out with your buddies. And since nerves can sabotage your efforts and make you sound choppy or high-pitched, take some slow, deep breaths before you head out on your date. “It will relax you and automatically lower the pitch of your voice,” Reiman says. Breathe in through your nose for a count of five and exhale through your mouth for a count of five. You should feel your abs move in and out. Repeat 10 times.

4. Give her 100 percent of your attention. When you’re with her, try to make her feel like she’s the only person in the room. “Even if dishes are breaking and good looking waitresses are walking by, keep your eyes focused on her,” says Reiman. Pay close attention to what she tells you and try to ask follow-up questions to show you’re interested in what she has to say. She’ll feel appreciated, plus the eye contact will work double duty, making her feel more bonded with you.

5. Tease her. Your first instinct may be to hold back and watch what you say as you get to know her, but that can backfire and make you appear dull. So don’t be afraid to disagree with her over who should’ve won the Super Bowl or lightheartedly tease her about her taste in music. Back-and-forth banter may actually help you stomp out any first date tension. “You’ll turn the conversation into something playful and flirtatious,” says Lorraine. If she’s laughing and having fun in a conversation, she’ll feel much more relaxed and will more likely be attracted to you.

6. Take her out for Thai. If you really want to get her pulse racing, take her out for spicy food. Dishes with a kick, such as those with curry or hot peppers, increase blood flow—as she heats up, she’ll associate the rush from the food with spending time with you. There’s also something else at play before she even takes the first bite. “Spicy foods spark feelings of danger,” says Reiman, “and a slight sense of fear can give her a small shot of adrenaline and build excitement.” Recommend she try a spiced-up entrée and order a hot dipping sauce with an appetizer that you two can share.

 7. Make fun of yourself. Women love to laugh and always rate a sense of humor at the top of their list, so show her you’re easy going by telling a story that highlights a goofy or clumsy moment. Talk about your first time bungee jumping or parasailing, including the part about the rope smacking you in the face or how you stumbled through the landing. “Stories with slight self-deprecation show her that you’re comfortable in your own skin and resilient enough to pull out of problematic scenarios with a positive attitude,” Reiman says.

Tips On Getting a Girl to Like You – A “Natural Game” Approach

This article is contributed by no less than SIBG’s resident sergeant-at-arms and wingman, James Raul. If you have questions for him, please send an email to fatso@sibg.com and he will reply in 24 hours. For now, devour the works of one of our master seducers!

Do you want to learn how to get a gal to like you?

James here, and I’ve been in the Baltimore Lair for three years now, and so I speak from experience. If you have set your eyes on a girl and want her to like you, then the first thing that you need to know is that every girl is different.

So, what one girl might like could be completely different from what another girl might like. Before you can fully comprehend how to get your dream girl to like you back, you will therefore have to take various things into consideration first. Since there is a ton of information available online nowadays, though, here is an article that breaks down the basics for you.

If you find the whole idea of approaching girls and winning them over incredibly daunting, then here are several proprietary, SIBG-patented  tips that can help you understand them more in terms of dating… SIBG style.

• Be Different.

This is probably the most important tip out there. If you want to get a girl to like you, then you have to be different from the rest of the other guys who are running after her.

It would be extremely helpful to do some research on the girl that you are eyeing first, though. This way, you can find out if she is adventurous or shy and whether she would go for someone gutsy or reserved. Either way, be the kind of guy that she would want to be with and you are sure to score major brownie points in no time.

However, if you would rather forgo the research and go straight in for the kill on the day you meet a girl, then keep in mind that most girls simply aren’t interested in boring, predictable guys. Why not try wearing red? Yes, red. Research shows that women get attracted to men in red! They are interested in unique, exciting guys; so, turning into one of those guys would probably be your best bet.

Remember – you don’t have to be ‘better‘, only ‘different‘.

• Groom Yourself Well.

Contrary to popular belief, girls aren’t looking for drop dead gorgeous guys that they can date. While good looks and six pack abs may be a major plus in the dating department, it really isn’t a prerequisite. However, you will need to groom yourself at the very least if you want to win a girl over. If you want to seduce her, look at this SIBG guide.

This means that you shouldn’t smell like sweat or have bad breath or bad body odor when you approach a girl. Practice good hygiene and keep yourself clean at all times, as well. Also, make sure your hair and clothes are always neat and presentable.

• Develop Emotional Rapport

If you want to know the fastest way to getting a girl to like you, then start by developing emotional rapport with her. This might sound counterproductive (you risk falling into the dreaded friend zone if you are not careful), but if you become a girl’s ‘friend’ before you let her know your true intentions; then you will be able to get to know her more, spend more time with her and make her comfortable around you while you’re at it.

How to Make a Girl Fall for You on the First Date

Having a first date that leads to a second is a function of a man's ability to blend old world etiquette with awareness of modern societal expectations. The ultimate trump card to having a woman fall for you on the first date requires a customized approached based on your date's personality and her emotional and mental state. The final piece of the puzzle is the state of mind the man brings to the table. It all begins with confidence.

Step 1Ask questions when you are planning your date. One of the most disastrous mishaps that can easily be avoided on a first date is planning to go someplace where the woman you are trying to win over will dislike or feel uncomfortable. For example, taking a vegetarian to a steak house or a salsa dancing club with someone who recently suffered an athletic injury. It's easy to find out about food allergies or even make a joke out of asking a woman what would be the worst possible date ever. Your humor and consideration will be appreciated.

Step 2Start to create a flexible itinerary for the date regardless of the time of day based on the information you obtained while asking her out. Use a local dining and entertainment guide to plan your date. If your date is happening early on, check out bistros, coffee shops, mid-day concerts or museum times and shows. If you have an evening engagement, check out restaurants or movie, theater or concert times. If you are prepared to explore one neighborhood in particular, you can spend more time on your date and less time traveling to get somewhere. Jot down the options in a mini notebook to stay organized.

Step 3Pay close attention to any signals your date may be directly or indirectly communicating while you're on the date. If she is having a great time walking around museum exhibits, perhaps you might spend more time there then you anticipated. Or, if she decides that waiting an extra half hour for the movie that has really been on her to-do list is also okay. You don't want to come off as rigid or as a man that lacks spontaneity. Being prepared and proposing a plan is impressive, but demonstrating the ability to handle the unexpected wins even more points.

Step 4Do things, such as compliment her on something small, open her car door, help her into the cab first, pull out her chair, maintain an appropriate physical distance based on her comfort level and take the initiative when settling up the bills. Unclear gender roles can make gentlemanly behavior seem like a novelty in the modern dating landscape and your date will most certainly take notice of thoughtful gestures. She'll also help to set the tone or express her personal opinion on any action you take, but set yourself up to exceed her expectations.

Step 5Pay attention. Give your date full eye contact frequently throughout the night and be sure to bring up an inside joke or continue conversations that have emerged throughout the date. This is where self-confidence plays a huge role. Smile often and present a picture of a happy and successful person proud to be who you are. No matter where you go or what you do on the first date, having an enjoyable time with the person should be the first and foremost plan of action.